Wǒ dāyìng xiěle yīgè duì wǒ lái shuō hěn nán de guānyú zhǔtí. Wèile míbǔ wǒ de bùzú, wǒ dú le yīxiē guānyú nián rén de wǎngzhàn. Tāmen zài zhè kāikuòle wǒ de yǎnjiè. Tāmen dàduō gàosu wǒ, nián rén de rén hěn nǎorén de. Tāmen yě gàosu wǒ, "Nián rén shì nǚshēng zuìdà de máobìng."
Yǒu yīgè nánrén shuō, tā de nǚyǒu de shèjiāo quān tài xiǎole, zǒng shì gēn tā tántiān, ér tā de jiāojì quān hěn dà, jīhū měitiān dū yǒurén zhǎo tā bāo diànhuà zhōu Jīhū měitiān dū yǒurén zhǎo tā bāo diànhuà zhōu.
Nián rén de rén ràng rén fán, wǒ bùxiǎng chéngwéi zhèyàng de rén. Nián rén de tèxiào yào shì tàkuān zìjǐ de shèjiāo quān ma? Rúguǒ xūyào shénme, wǒ huì zuò.
Zài lìng yīgè jiǎodù, dāng wǒ wèn zhōuwéi de zhōngwén wèi mǔyǔ de rén, zuò gèng duō de yánjiū, tāmen dàduō biǎoshì bùshì suǒyǒu de nánrén juéde nián rén rě rén fán. Bù zhīdào zhè duì bùduì, yīn wéi rénmen xǐhuan sāhuǎng rúguǒ tāmen bùshì nìmíng de...
黏人
我答应写了一个对我来说很难的关于主题。为了弥补我的不足,我读了一些关于黏人的网站。他们在这他们开阔了我的眼界。他们大多告诉我,黏人的人很恼人的。他们也告诉我:「黏人是女生最大的毛病。」
有一个男人说,他的女友的社交圈太小了,总是跟他谈天,而他的交际圈很大,几乎每天都有人找他煲电话粥。
黏人的人让人烦,我不想成为这样的人。黏人的特效药是拓宽自己的社交圈吗?如果需要什么,我会做。
在另一个角度,当我问周围的中文为母语的人,做更多的研究,他们大多表示不是所有的男人觉得黏人惹人烦。不知道这对不对,因为人们喜欢撒谎如果他们不是匿名的。。。
clingy
I promised to write a topic that was difficult for me. To compensate for it, I read some websites about clinginess. They opened my eyes on this subject. Most of them told me, a clingy person is very annoying. They also told me, "Clinginess is women's greatest weakness."
There was this one man saying, her girlfriend's social circle was too small, so she always chatted with him, but his social circle is large, almost everyday people look for him to talk on the phone with.
Clingy person is so bothersome, I don't want to become one. Is the cure for clinginess is enlarging our social circle? If that's what it takes, I will do it.
On another perspective, when I did additional research, this time by asking chinese-speaking people around, most of them said not all men find clingy person bothersome. I don't know if it's correct, because people like to brush up the truth when they're not anonymous...